How to Make Out and 10 Steps to Make it Oh-So-Sexy!

Are you stressed out about making
out for the first time? Use these 10
naughty and sexy steps on how to
make out and you’ll feel like a pro in
minutes! By Gerry Sanders
If you were to ask a friend how to
make out, the first thing they’d tell
you is that it comes naturally.
And they’re definitely not wrong.
Arousal and sexual intimacy does
come naturally, because it’s in our
instincts.
But instincts don’t work in your favor
all the time, especially when you
panic or get stressed out.
[Read: A first kiss story that went
embarrassingly wrong!
]
A first kiss is always a bit of a worry,
even if you’re a serial kisser.
It’s a whole new experience and you
just don’t know how your new
sweetie would move or use their lips
and their tongue.
So if you’re worried you’d end up
making out badly or make a fool of
yourself, seriously, don’t worry about
it!
As long as you know these steps here,
you’d be able to work your magic
every single time!
[Read: 15 secrets to make your first
kiss really memorable!
]
How to make out like a know-it-all!
It doesn’t matter if you’re making out
for the first time or the hundredth
time, just keeping a few simple steps
in mind will always make making out
feel really good.
Firstly, you need to remember that a
kiss is just a small part of making
out. There’s so much more to do!
Think about it, you have a whole
body that’s tingling with sexual
arousal, so why limit your make out
moves to just the lips?
Many guys and girls assume making
out is all about starting at the lips,
and moving downwards one step
after the other. But really, making out
is so much more than that, and it’s
so much more sexier than that too!
10 steps to make out and make it
feel oh-so-sexy!
If you’ve just started dating someone
and are on the verge of making out
with them, read these 10 steps on
how to make out and use them. Your
sweetheart would definitely be
amazed by how good you are, and
assume you’re a sex god or a sex
goddess who’s a know-it-all when it
comes to making out! [Read: How to
be a seductress and a sex goddess
who’s desired by all guys
]
#1 The perfect setting. If you want to
have a good time making out, both of
you need to feel comfortable in your
surroundings. Find a place that’s
quiet and isolated where you won’t
be interrupted by anyone. Privacy is
important if you want to avoid
distractions and build the connection.
#2 Don’t expect the mood to be
perfect right away. The way both of
you feel at that very moment plays a
big part in making out. If you’ve had
phone sex or texted each other a few
dirty lines the earlier evening or if
both of you decide to finally make out
on the next date, don’t assume the
mood would be just right when both
of you meet up. [Read: 22 tips to
have phone sex like a sexy sassy
minx!
]
Just be yourself, and don’t worry too
much about how you’re going to
make out. When the moment comes,
you’ll instinctively be ready. [Read: 6
sneaky ways to get a guy to kiss you
just when you want him to!
]
#3 Don’t be hasty. If you want the
first time you make out to be steamy
and passionate, don’t rush it.
Rushing into it too fast will almost
always ruin it. Just relax and sit
down with each other. Both of you
could watch a movie together, just
talk or hang out.
#4 Build the sexual tension. Both of
you may like each other a lot and find
each other attractive. But what you
do at that particular moment while
hanging out together can make
everything feel so much sexier, and
build the right setting for a perfect
make out. [Read: 13 signs you’re
feeling the sexual tension in the room
]
Find excuses to sit down next to each
other without making it obvious that
you’re coming closer just to make
out. Talk softly in a low voice and
avoid getting jumpy or overexcited
while saying something, or you’ll kill
the sensual mood you’re trying to set.
Clasp your sweetheart’s hands gently
and talk about something romantic or
sweet, like the first time both of you
started falling for each other. [Read:
How to make a girl horny and wet
just by sitting next to her!
]
#5 Get close, really close. Warming
your partner up before you actually
start making out with each other is a
perfect way to connect with each
other and build the passion even
before kissing each other.
Touch your partner or move your
index finger gently across the length
of their arm or their cheek, and
compliment them about their
appearance as you’re doing that. Just
doing this will get your partner’s
heart racing with sexual arousal!
Look into each other’s eyes, and
occasionally run your fingers through
their hair. Sit down really close and
just sink into that moment of carnal
bliss, because at this very moment,
both of you would be feeling really
horny and aroused. [Read: 6 clever
ways to kiss a friend and get away
with it!
]
#6 Don’t kiss immediately. If you feel
like the moment is right, you can kiss
your partner as soon as you feel it.
But if you’re still nervous about
kissing, hold that thought. Forcing a
kiss on your new sweetheart too soon
may make things awkward for both of
you, especially if you’re not ready for
it.
Instead, move your face really close
to your partner’s face as you sit next
to them. You can rub your nose
against their cheek or even kiss their
cheek really close to their lips. Or if
you want to take it slower, place your
palm along the back of their neck,
move in close and softly kiss the neck
right under the chin or the ear, and
just breathe into the kiss. Take your
time, and don’t try to rush in at any
point. Just enjoy the moment. [Read:
10 sexy tips to kiss really
passionately and romantically
]
#7 Enjoy the sensation. Close your
eyes and enjoy the sensation as you
run your hands all over your partner.
Breathe into their skin, enjoy the way
your hands feel over their arms or
shoulders, feel the texture of their hair
through your fingers. Wrap your arms
around them and run it along the
length of their back. Relish the sexual
intoxication you feel as both of you
run your hands against each other.
#8 Arouse the erogenous zones. You
can kiss your partner at any point of
time, when you feel like it. But every
few minutes, take a break from the
kissing and enjoy the rest of your
lover’s body. Without breaking the
sensual moment, move your lips
away from their lips. Slowly and
passionately, continue kissing them
around their lips, their neck or their
ear lobes.
Bring your face away from their face,
and without breaking the flow, kiss
their shoulders, move on and bite
their arms gently and eventually bring
their fingers to your lips. Kiss their
fingers and run your tongue over their
fingers, while moving your hands all
over their body.
Every little body part that sticks out
like the nose, ears, fingers, toes,
ankles, elbows is a potential
erogenous zone that is just
screaming for your touch when you
make out with someone. Run your
hands and lips all over their body,
and you’ll definitely arouse your
partner and make them want to
explode in sexual ecstasy! [Read:
How to kiss a girl by arousing her
senses
]
#9 Perfecting the kiss while making
out. One thing you need to know
about the kiss is that it’s just like
clasping hands and interlacing
fingers with your boyfriend or
girlfriend. It’s really simple, isn’t it?
But just to hold each other’s hands,
both of you have to move your fingers
perfectly while coordinating with
each other to make sure your fingers
interlace perfectly, right?
A kiss works the same way. Tilt your
head slightly *it’ll help you breathe
more easily*, part your lips just a
little and place your lips gently
against your partner’s lips and kiss
them. Don’t move your lips a lot at
least for the first few seconds so you
can enjoy the sensation without any
worry of what you need to do next.
[Read: 18 tips to kiss for the first time
and turn your partner on instantly!
]
You don’t even need to use your
tongue the first time. But if you do
want to, then go ahead and try it.
When both of you get the rhythm right
*just like interlacing your fingers*,
you can push the tip of your tongue
into your partner’s lips for a few
seconds and see how it feels. If you
like it, you can go ahead and let your
tongue wander just a bit more as
time passes.
As long as you don’t stress yourself
out and just enjoy the sensation, your
instincts will kick in and work its
magic.
[Read: How to make out with a guy
like a sex goddess
]
[Read: How to make out with a girl
and make her love it!
]
#10 Don’t get carried away. Making
out is fun and the pleasure is an
intoxicating rush. But that doesn’t
mean you should get carried away
and try something that both of you
aren’t ready for. If you do use these
moves to the tee, your partner will
turn into soft putty in your hands, and
they’ll have a hard time resisting
anything you do! So you must
remember to avoid taking advantage
of the situation.
Don’t push your luck when you’re
making out, at least for the first time.
If your hands wander somewhere that
your partner isn’t comfortable with,
and they hold your hand back or
stiffen up, don’t push ahead in the
heat of the moment. Respect your
partner so both of you can have an
enjoyable experience.
Remember, both of you will always
have plenty of time to take things
further and try something new with
each other. And making out always
feels best when every new sexual
experience is experienced one step at
a time!
[Read: Dry humping and the virgin’s
guide to orgasms!
]
Just remember these 10 tips on how
to make out, and both of you will
have an exceptionally good time
making out. But keep this in mind,
the stronger and slower you build the
passion and tension, the better the
making out will feel!