How to Kiss a Girl for the First Time and Not Screw Up

Are you afraid she’ll back away when
you try to kiss her? Use these 10
steps on how to kiss a girl for the first
time and you won’t ever go wrong! By
Gerry Sanders
Kissing a girl for the first time is an
art.
It’s not hard, but it’s definitely an art
many guys haven’t mastered yet.
Kissing a girl on a date or an empty
hallway is all about perfect timing.
You try to kiss her a moment too
early, and she may back away.
You try to kiss her a moment too late,
and she may have lost the mood.
Now it does sound really tricky.
But there are ways to turn things in
your favor, and create the perfect
chemistry whenever you want!
[Read: 10 ways to arouse a girl and
make her want to kiss you!
]
How to kiss a girl for the first time
The biggest worry for any guy who
wants to kiss a girl is the dreaded
moment when you pucker up and
move forward, and she backs away!
It just makes everything so much
more awkward.
And if she ever does back away from
a kiss, things could just go from
awkward to no contact!
So if you do like a girl and
desperately want to kiss her, don’t
make the crucial mistake of getting
the timing wrong.
[Read: 25 things about a guy that turn
a girl on sexually and otherwise
]
The big mistake: Rushing into a first
kiss
There’s no feeling that’s worse than
lunging for a kiss, only to watch your
date make an awkward expression
and back her body away from you.
*her embarrassed smile or laugh will
only make things so much more
awkward!* [Confession: A teenage
boy's first kiss gone completely
wrong!
]
And that would almost always
happen if you rush into the kiss
without giving your date a chance to
prepare herself for that inevitable
smooch.
If she likes you already, chances are,
she may not oppose your kiss. But if
it’s just a first date, and you lunge for
a kiss, there’s every possibility that
she may back away even if she thinks
you’re a nice guy and had
contemplated over kissing you at
some point during the date. [Read:
How to touch a girl on a date and
warm her up for a kiss
]
10 steps to kiss a girl for the first
time and make her want more!
Take it slow, use the steps given
below, and you’ll be well on your way
to perfecting every kiss. And the best
part, you’ll be able to use any
circumstance to create the perfect
setting for that first kiss, and kiss the
girl even if she’s never even
considered kissing you yet! [Read: 11
moves to seduce a girl and get her in
bed within a few days!
]
#1 Alone time. The most important
thing you need to ensure is privacy.
Kissing a girl for the first time is
awkward for the first few seconds,
until it starts to get perfect. But for
that transition to be smooth, you
need to avoid any kind of
distractions.
Try to get some alone time with the
girl, be it in your room, in your car
after the date, or in a quiet corner as
you walk her home. It’s very
important that you find the right place
with a lot of privacy, or you may end
up ruining all chances of kissing her.
#2 Don’t talk about the kiss. If you
know the girl already, chances are,
you’ve spoken with her about the first
kiss at some point of time, either
while text flirting with her or over the
phone. [Read: 20 sexy questions to
text a girl and make her wet!
]
But when you’re in the moment, in a
quiet place where there’s no one else
but the two of you, don’t talk about it.
Don’t mention anything about
wanting to kiss her or about wanting
to make out with her. She knows both
of you have discussed it and so do
you. Don’t make the situation
awkward by arm twisting her into a
kiss because both of you have talked
about it!
#3 Take your time. There’s nothing
like the perfect time to kiss a girl,
especially when you’re the one who’s
in control of the situation. Relax, sit
down with her and just talk about
something. Help her feel at ease,
because the more comfortable she is,
the more the chances of her enjoying
that first kiss with you. Just flirt with
her, and talk about something both of
you did that day.
#4 Don’t ask her if you can kiss her.
It’s true, girls love a knight in shining
armor and she’ll love a guy who’s
chivalrous. But asking her if it’s okay
to kiss her isn’t a sign of chivalry, it’s
a sign of awkwardness.
Don’t ask a girl if you can kiss her
because her answer will almost never
be in your favor. If she’s really into
you, she may accept to kiss you, even
if she feels surprised by your *bold
question*. But in any other case,
you’re setting yourself for a fall.
There’s one thing you can do though,
you can kiss the girl gently on her
lips, bring your face back a few
inches, look into her eyes and ask her
if you can kiss her. By doing that,
you’re teasing her sexually, and she
would definitely say “yes”, and it’ll
actually make the first kiss a lot more
intimate! [Read: 15 secrets to make
your first kiss so much more
memorable
]
#5 Get closer. The best way to warm
her up for the first kiss is by cozying
up with her. If you’re sitting down,
seat your butt closer to her so your
arm can easily graze against hers.
And if you’re standing, move into her
personal space and just stand a few
inches away from her body.
The second you get into a girl’s
personal space, it’ll make her feel
awkward. But don’t let her
awkwardness scare you away. Talk
to her and flirt with her, and don’t
make it obvious that you’re coming
closer to her. Instead, just pretend
like you came in closer involuntarily,
and didn’t even realize it. [Read: How
to sit next to a girl and make her
horny and wet without being obvious
]
#6 Warm up the sexual tension.
Touch her often. Use your finger and
run it through her hair or along her
arm. Compliment her as you touch
her, be it about her hair, her fragrance
or her soft skin.
If she smiles or blushes when you
touch her, it’s a sign she likes what
you’re doing. Speak softly in a low
tone and avoid any sudden
movements. Whisper in her ears, and
run your fingers against hers
playfully. [Read: 50 cute things to say
to a girl and make her blush before
kissing her!
]
#7 Make your intentions clear. Move
in close until your face is just inches
away from her face. You don’t need
to stop talking though, just say
something, but as you say it, look at
her lips, and then back again at her
eyes. She’ll know exactly what you’re
looking at, and her mind would be
racing just as fast as yours is!
Wet your own lips discreetly as you
stare at her *not in a murderous
maniac kind of way*. Licking your
lips subconsciously sends the
message across to the girl that you
intend to come in for a kiss very soon,
and moist lips are so much better to
kiss. [Read: 10 sexy tips to kiss a girl
passionately and arouse her
]
#8 The perfect time to kiss. If you use
these steps on how to kiss a girl for
the first time, you don’t really need to
worry about the perfect time to kiss
her because you’re the one in
complete control of things.
But just to create the right cue, move
in closer for the kiss when there’s
been a bit of silence for a few
seconds. Stop talking and don’t say
anything. Just look into her eyes, and
run your fingers through her hair. If
she just looks back at you without
saying anything, that’s the perfect
moment you’ve been waiting for!
#9 Take it easy. So yeah, you’ve just
kissed the girl. But don’t get carried
away and ruin the moment. When you
kiss a girl for the first time, you need
to be very gentle and delicate. Place
your lips on hers and kiss her lips
softly.
Don’t try to use your tongue too early
into the kiss. Instead, just relax, and
try to enjoy the way her lips feel
against yours. You have all the time
to try new things later. But for now,
just focus on kissing her gently, and
don’t get pushy. [Read: How to make
out with a girl on a date and make
her love it!
]
#10 Don’t be overenthusiastic. When
you kiss the girl for the first time,
don’t let your hands wander too soon
into the kiss, or she’s just stiffen up
or push your hands away *and that’s
a terrible mood kill!*
As you kiss her, place your hands on
her shoulders or along the sides of her
arms, and just move it gently along
the sides of her body. Don’t try to
move your hands over her breasts or
her stomach unless both of you have
been kissing for a while.
Touching a girl’s breasts during the
first kiss can make things awkward.
Well, unless you know the perfect way
to do it and make her enjoy it! [Read:
The right way to place your hand over
the girl’s breasts when you kiss her
for the first time!
]
A first kiss can seem complicated,
but by using these 10 steps on how to
kiss a girl for the first time, you’ll be
in complete control of the situation
the whole time. And you’ll definitely
build the right kind of sexual tension
to make sure she enjoys that first
kiss, just as much as you do!
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