Why Do We Fall Out of Love?

Falling out of love can happen as naturally as falling
into love. So do you want to fall out of love completely
or do you want to reignite the spark of romance? It’s
really all in your own hands. Why do we fall out of love
and what can we do about it? Find out here.
As your relationship grows older, are you falling out of
love with your partner?
People fall out of love all the time.
It’s natural.
But the reasons behind it are simple and very revealing,
right from the start.

Why do we fall out of love?
Where is your relationship heading? Are your minor
squabbles just lovers’ tiffs or are they signs that you
should think fast and work to improve your relationship
and resolve the differences.
This may sound clichéd but it’s a fact that relationships
are eternally based on the understanding between
individuals.
The relationship between a man and a woman who are
either seeing each other or are married, at the best of
times, can be in complete conundrums.
The initial stages of any relationship  are the defining
moments that give an inkling of the direction in which
the relationship will go.
It gives an insight to the path the partners would walk, a
rose petal strewn one or one riddled with pot holes.
Should your fall out of love or stay in love?
Love is indeed blind, because there are times when it’s
difficult to understand whether we are into love or not, or
whether we are even ready for it. Your better half may be
a complete stranger or a fast friend before the both of
you entered into a committed relationship.
An ideal mate is what everyone craves for. No one likes
falling out of love. It’s annoying, depressing and a very
sensitive issue.
The whole idea of a relationship like love is fantasized
about these days and we must give all credit to the
mush and chick flicks, which portrays the ‘picture
perfect’ couples, living happily ever after.
But these movies, they fail to show the dark underbelly
of this much glamorized relationship.
the beginning, everything seems to move smoothly in
love. The understanding, love, care, mutual connectivity,
compatibility and intimacy are at its best. You tend to
expect the sun, the moon, the stars and everything nice
from your partner. But happy relationships come with a
price tag and the actual reactions of the chemistry
between both of you shows its aftereffects when certain
aspects of your relationship come under trial.
What you should know about falling out of love
The most important thought to ponder about when you
fall out of love, is whether your relationship has outlived
its time, or are there too many irreconcilable differences,
lack of intimacy, etc. Only a few couples overcome these
problems while most others flounder. It takes years to
build relations but only a few seconds to break them and
these days, young couples are increasingly facing the
hurried-divorce syndrome.
Divorce today has become like the weather column
which changes every day. Surprisingly, one cannot give
a specific reason for the separation because there is
plenty behind the scene, which adds to the misery and
cause of divorce.
Few egocentric couples fall in the trap of the easy
divorce system, where neither of them is ready to give
up or compromise. Self-esteem is a crucial part in any
relationship but if it takes the form of an ego, then
nothing but parting ways can keep the couple moving
ahead in life. The words of your partner, which seemed
like unadulterated honey dripping directly from the hive,
would now sound like the hiss of a serpent.
When you’re falling out of love, every action of the
individual would lead to an opposite reaction from the
other one in the relationship.
Anger and falling out of love
Jealousy and insecurity are also the causes for a
relationship to break down and make one stray and fall
out of love. A partner may not be comfortable with their
spouse’s overindulgence and interest in some other
person. Insecurity carves a path for itself when there is a
fear of losing the partner and this thought nags the mind
of an individual.
Jealousy and insecurity go hand in hand because the
former breeds the latter. The compatibility of the couples
should be so intense that such unwanted weeds should
not crop up between them. Usually it’s these petty
misunderstandings that lead to whale sized conflicts.
There are so many more reasons behind why people fall
out of love.
And that’s why it’s crucial to communicate and come to
an understanding before you fall out of love, and realize
that it’s too late. Click here to read about compatibility
in love and how it can make a huge difference when it
comes to falling out of love.

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