How to Talk to a Girl and Look Smooth Doing It!

Learn how to talk to a girl like a real smooth talker,
no matter where you are. All you need are just 10
moves to work your magic and impress her!
Have you ever walked into a room and instantly
found yourself smitten by a beauty standing across
the room?
Ever wondered how to talk to a girl you like at a
time like this?
Making a move to talk to a girl
One of the biggest hurdles most guys face is
making the first move.
Chatting up a girl is easy if you’re going to be
introduced to her.
But when you have to walk up to a girl you’ve never
spoken to before, and want to start a conversation,
your heart can start to beat faster than a
hummingbird on heat.
[Read: Everything you need to know to approach a
girl you don't know and wow her!
]
Follow these ten steps one at a time, and before
you know it, knowing how to talk to a girl you like
will be as easy as taking a walk in the park.
What you need to know
You’re interested in talking to great girls, aren’t
you?
And just like you, girls are interested in talking to
great guys too.
So really, there’s nothing to be worried about here!
Remember the biggest rule when it comes to
knowing how to talk to a girl – you can’t jump
steps. Just like you have to learn to walk before
you can run, you need to learn to warm her up
before you talk to her. Read on.
#1 Let her know you’re interested in her. Talking to
a girl isn’t as simple as walking up to just about any
girl and asking her out on a date. It may work in the
movies, but in all probability, it won’t work in real
life. A girl needs to know you’re interested in her so
she can evaluate you.
If you just walk up to a girl who doesn’t have a hint
that you’re approaching her, you may just end up
shocking her. And she’s going to say the first thing
her mum taught her to say to intruding boys. “Go
away!” [Read: 8 classy moves to get a girl to notice
you without even talking to her
]
#2 Play the staring game. Once she knows you
exist, take the game a notch higher. Glance at her
now and then to arouse her curiosity. Does she
glance back at you now and then? Does she smile
to herself when you catch her eye? Do her friends
look at you and smile? Watch out for the happy
signs. [Read: 10 subtle eye contact flirting moves
that always work!
]
There’s no point in trying to figure out how to talk to
a girl if all she does is gives you a dirty stare or
doesn’t care whether you’re looking at her. Asking a
girl out in such cases usually ends up being a
disaster and for a novice’s confidence, it’s best to
be avoided.
#3 Don’t pick her up. Using a pick up line may be
smart and cocky, but in most cases, pick up lines
fail. The best way to figure out when and how to talk
to a girl is to avoid pick up lines and use pick up
circumstances instead!
If it’s a conference or a gallery and she walks up to
a display, stand next to her and say something out
of the blue like “do you know how long it took to
make this?” or something just as casual. Likewise,
whether it’s in the office, a park or even a bar, look
around and ask her a question that’s relevant to
something around her.
But always remember to keep it vague. A vague
question makes a girl wonder for a few seconds,
she’s going to end up responding to you. [Read:
How to tell if a girl likes you for more examples and
tips]
#4 Don’t come on too strong. Now this works best
just after you’ve spoken to her after asking her a
really vague question. Once she answers it, both of
you are in talking mode but not really friends. She
would have answered your question and looked
away. She obviously knows you’re hitting on her, so
she won’t really try to continue the conversation.
She may just smile and look away. [Read: 16 tips to
keep a flirty conversation going with the opposite
sex
]
You can do one of two things, introduce yourself or
continue to play the game and introduce yourself
after asking her a few more questions. Prolonging
the game can make it so much more exciting for
both of you. But of course, she could just walk out
of the conversation if she’s in a bar counter waiting
for a drink. If you’re introducing yourself, go ahead
and introduce yourself. And be frank, tell her you
have a confession to make, that you’ve been
waiting to meet her for a long time or all evening.
She obviously knows you’ve been staring at her, so
why pretend like you’re picking her up. Telling her
the truth may flatter her instead of making her feel
like she’s being picked up. [Read: 15 very obvious
flirting signs between a guy and a girl
]
#5 Give her the space
When you’re talking to a girl, make sure she knows
she can walk out whenever she wants. Don’t corner
her in awkward places like outside the ladies room,
or a quiet corridor. If you can handle it, you can
even talk to a girl when she’s with her friends.
Always remember, if she feels like she has the
space, she’s going to be a lot more comfortable to
talk to you. [Read: How to charm a girl and flatter
her into liking you ]
But then again, this is tricky. If you give a girl
enough space, you may not be able to build a
connection and she may just end up walking away.
But as long as you’ve got the first four steps right,
she won’t really walk away.
After all, if you’ve warmed her up, she’s going to
want to talk to you too! As long as you’ve used
these first four steps on how to talk to a girl to the
tee, you’ll be able to talk to a girl and impress her,
without really making it appear like you’re trying to
pick her up. [Read: 12 things a girl does when she
likes you already ]
We’re only half way through the guide on how to
talk to a girl and look smooth at the same time.
These tips may be enough to impress a girl and
start a conversation with her. Read these next five
steps on what to talk about with a girl to rouse her
interest and charm your way into her heart.
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